Alwayssmiling
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AITJ For Not Going To My Sister's Wedding?
1 year ago
I wasn't invited to my sister's wedding, I took it to mean she didn't want me there. I didn't invite her to mine, she got upset, I couldn't have cared less! You're NTJ. So many weddings are really a 'show' and less of a long-term commitment. You don't have to go to her performance.
Please don't expect employees (or anyone) to read your mind. You can try asking where to put the trash, even though you already know. Or hinting/suggesting that they out a small receptacle there for just that reason. You're clearly not the only one that doesn't like it, but please aim to remedy the situation, not just become comfortable with it.
I didn't have bridesmaids either! Best decision ever. However, my husband had four really close friends that he would have asked. They were simply invited as guests and no one got their knickers in a knot. If you're truly looking for advice, please go to offbeat bride and look up their advice for dealing with sticky situations identical to yours. They helped me out, they can help out anyone sort through and have a happy wedding. Good luck, and congratulations!