Amel1
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NTJ. Sounds like they're trying to take advantage of you. If you aren't taking any of their food and such, then why in the world would they think they should be able to just take yours?! I'd have a slight concern on them messing with your stuff now - from their response to this, they seem like they'd be petty and enjoy ganging up on you/messing with you
My parents had a similar attachment to their last name and were each the "last of their line" so they really struggled when my brother dropped a portion of it. As I've gotten older I can see and understand their feelings a lot more. To them, it feels like a desire to step away from the family, or "they don't like me". But in reality that's not your reasoning for this choice. And it's your name and your decision, not theirs. And they have to accept that and not push or try to guilt/ hurt you - although I'd strongly recommend to give them some understanding that it might be hard on them while they come to terms with your choice. I'd say NTJ or NJH. If you're interested in compromise, I'd say to think about making your name hyphenated as a show of you and your fiance coming together
NTJ. Not only can that be confusing to your child, but what your sister said is cruel and dismissive of you and your husband that's passed. Just because someone babysits and/ or helps out with children does not in any way make them the parent or in charge of how to raise the child. She is trying to usurp
She needs SO much help! She sounds dangerous dude - you can't make her find help but I elitism feel comfortable living with someone like that
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