CmHart2008
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Dad's SO is a control freak and your dad has no spine. There is nothing wrong with a father & daughter having vacation together. SO had the opportunity to go and declined because her pet is more important than your dad. When he made plans to continue without her she was offended because it was took away her control. Your dad caved & threw you under the proverbial bus. Your dad is spineless and his OS is a controlling conflict maker who respects neither you nor your dad. Too bad your dad cannot see this clearly, apologize to you and mean it!
Contact an attorney & have them send a "cease and desist" letter to each member of that family. That house was available for sale. You bought it. End of story. Their feelings in this matter is theirs to manage & not your problem. Disinvolve yourself from their mess & stop allowing them to intrude on your life. Grow a spne & close out negatives!
Send a pleasant but not gooey card addressed to "The Family of ________". At the end, no personal message just
sign your name on the inside and be done with it. Then walk away. Contact promotes continued contempt. Disinvolve yourself and get on with your life.
Therapy will help you find out why it is so important to you for him to know your side of this story. This need of yours is not healthy one. It is bound to continue a toxic situation & cause pain. You need some help learning how to let go of this and completely let go of your family, including your brother and get on with a life that is free of such ugliness.
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