FoxxyRamen101
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Spill the tea. I wanna know all the juicy details.
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Lol the one comment where the writer must have forgotten OP is also a woman and RANTS about what women DO NOT WANT!!! I'm snorting!
Anyways, OP, YTJ but I think you might be willing to make it up to your partner. If you were being honest when you said you thought she would really enjoy it, then it was an honest mistake. I get it. I'm not a practical gift giver, I'm a horrible gift giver! I know what's it's like for gifts to not hit the right mark (I once thought it was the best idea in the world to buy my parents bides for Christmas! Snort!!), but maybe you should try again? Be very quiet about searching for a new romantic gift and surprise her with it! You may be the jerk, but I do relate to this and I never do it on purpose.
Stop. Stop. Wait. Your jumping the gun guys. Quick question: Did SIL keep your brother from seeing his son? He said she had "full custody and that's that" like it's final. Like he doesn't have visitation? Or did your brother actually disown his son?
If the answer is Yes, SIL won't allow visitations, then OP your in a pickle. But maybe get a family member to volunteer to look after your nephew for the party so SIL won't have to be there.
If the answer is Yes, your brother really did disown his son, then YTJ. And I agree with everything they said
Okay, I'm sorry, am I the only freaking one that sees some serious red flags here??? OP, no!!! You are NOT the jerk, okay? Honestly, that whole situation about the server and what she told you (and was probably instructed to tell you, because come on, what young girl decides to just tell parents what to do with their baby? While not unheard of, unlikely) is on the back burner for me. Honey, are you okay? Because I hope Ive read your story wrong. The way you wrote it brings up some scary questions.
OP first describes what was (hopefully) a horrible accident. Then OP discribes their husband's reaction. And the bystander's reaction to husband. Now about here is where a normal angry person would have continued their meal, or grathered their family and left. Husband began to do that, but instead turned around and escalated the situation more by spitting at the woman. Spitting! What kind of adult does that (I've seen loads of Karen's do it to give you a hint)??? Then, calmly the husband gets in the car, and before even leaving the parking lot says "how do you feel?" OP answers "I don't want to make you mad" then, before she even tells him how she feels, two tears run down her face.
This sounds like a person who has been abused by this person before. I've see this situation before, and this is exactly what it looks like. It's kind like flinching because you know the slap is coming. OP reacted to husband before husband was mad. And OP predicted right, too. Husband did get mad. I guess it doesn't help that OP ended the story right there. But I would like to know what happened after? I hope nothing bad.
So, my question, OP, is, did I read your story right? Because if I did, do you need help?
And, if I didn't read the story right, same answer. Your husband is the jerk who handles his temper like a toddler. And to the tw@t-wad that said "husband was protecting his family and his pride and whatever you do don't hurt husband's ego": we left the caveman days ages ago you misogynistic egotistical uneducated bell-end!! Google it. NTJ
Hmm. I think your both the jerk. You were a jerk by snapping the way you did. I think you did it out of frustration. Most people would be confused instead of mad over toast. Like that's so dumb I need to know what was running through your head kind of confusion. This family member is a jerk because they claim they know everything they need to to do this or that. Obviously not. So here is my advice, take it or leave it. Apologize over the toast and admit it was silly. Be honest about your feeling over always being asked to fix this or that with the computer. Explain that it isn't just them if they get defensive. Then, teach them one last computer lesson: teach them how to use YouTube to figure out their own simple problems. If I were you I would be a lot less frustrated if the problems they came to you were not so silly and simple. So teach this person how to solve their own small problems. Who know? Maybe they will grow a nack for it and never call you for help again.
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