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I'm sorry but being together for a year and a half doesn't make that guy a dad, this coming from a someone who's mom had multiple boyfriends when I was a child. I did not consider those men dads, so OP has every right to make sole decisions about her child and if the child wants to meet his bio dad then that's up to the child and the mother. Also saying you're worried about the child liking the bio dad more is just selfish, children have lots of love to give to those who earn it. Now bio dad is a jerk for waiting 7 years to meet his son.
This is something that should be discussed before having kids. My husband and I have a 6month old and way before having her we discussed who did what. He said he's not one to take care of babies but he would do all the house hold chores (which he does) and im too take care of the baby while im off work (i agreed to this) i have not had to do any chores (thou i have helped with some when she naps even thou mu husband tells me not to). To his credit he does spend time with our baby when I need a break even though that was not the deal, he just won't do diapers