Kilzer53
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Ntj. If ur mom is so heartbroken, it's her own fault. U didn't tell her she couldn't come. It's her decision. She's just putting over the fact she has no control over the situation.
Ntj. U NEED to NOT move in with him anywhere. Actually, u need to get away from him asap. The fact that he doesn't listen to ur concerns, dismisses ur wants/needs and listens more to what dad says - those are enough warning flags to let u know he is demeaning, controlling and NOT good partner material. He's selfish and inconsiderate. If this is the type of future u want, ok. But u can't fuss about his behavior 10 yrs from now. This type doesn't change. He just gets worse.
Call ur mom's bluff. Having a bitter, angry, resentful person around on a day that is supposed to be one of the best days in your life will make it one of the worst. Ur mom needs help to let go of her anger, but it sounds like she enjoys being bitter and wants everyone around her to be the same.
Ask ur mil exactly why she wants the baby overnight. It doesn't make sense that she would want another baby over there with a houseful. Is she missing having a baby around? If she is, tell her to adopt. This baby is urs.
Ur partner need to BE UR partner and not mommy's boy. He needs to back u, not mommy.
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