Candygirl
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You are kinda being a jerk to yourself. Stop giving this ex that much power over you. I say go to Mexico, have a blast with your fiance and show them all how untouched you are by this ex by being coolly civil to her when absolutely necessary and just ignoring her presence like the annoying little pest she is the rest of the time.
He's mad because he can't "complain freely" about you? Seriously, WTaF dude? NO ONE wants to be complained about, especially when from the way this sounds ad nauseum. If he truly only needed to vent his frustrations to a friend, he wouldn't need to do it in a group setting, especially one you are a part of. He's wanting to do it this way because he thinks that all of your friends will agree with him and tell you how wrong YOU are for having your own different interests. He's acting like a child, a very young one at that.
Soft YTJ. I think your anxiety over a surgery (which is scary to pretty much every person) is causing you to overreact to your dad asking questions of another expert in the field that you are dealing with. He's your DAD, he's worried and scared for his child. You yourself do not have children yet, so I don't think you understand how scary it is for a parent to watch your child go thru something like this. It never changes from the time that child is born and until the rest of both of your lives, you worry about them. He didn't give this specialist your picture or bring the person to your house to have a surprise consultation with you. He asked a person that he knows is an expert.
The other mom did not ask that he be punished (at least according to what is in this post) she just asked the OP to talk to her son about not making fun of her daughter. That's a perfectly reasonable request
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