Kneidsid
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AITJ For Dyeing My Kids' Hair?
1 year ago
Ok. I'm going to say ESH.
Maybe I'm misreading, but what I got from this: You had a rough break-up. Your baby daddy only sees the two boys a couple times a month. You can't talk directly to him without his new chick getting involved and causing issues (or can't talk to him at all). You seem to have a little trouble organizing your thoughts. They have personal issues with children having dyed hair that has nothing to do with what is best for the kids. And somehow convinced you that their permission is needed.
You tried out the hair dye. It unexpectedly caused no issues. And you changed your mind and let the kids keep it. And now the interfering non-parents are punishing you for not doing what they say? Plus your neurodivergent youngest son likes the hair dye so much that doctors are clearly concerned he'll be upset to the point of regression if you take away this little bit of autonomy. But you're considering doing it anyway because you are a doormat.
As long as the dye is safe for kids, stick up for your family and tell those meddling control freaks to take a flying leap.
He said he pays for nannies AND in-home care. The in-home care is for his wife. People get in-home care for medical conditions that leave them incapable of functioning on their own. What is wrong with some of y'all.