NikkiM
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Absolutely NOT the jerk! Your parents are assholes. So is your brother. I can not imagine not being able to communicate with my child and I would do ANYTHING I needed to in order to be able to communicate with him. Your pare ts sound like selfish toxic jerks. They refuse to learn ASL to be able to talk to you yet yell at you and blame you when there's issues communicating. And the fact that they won't include you by turning on captions so you can understand a movie because its "annoying"?!?! Yeah, 10000% selfish AND toxic. If they can't be bothered to do two EASY things to include you, then I wouldn't visit anymore either if I were you. Maybe email them.a copy of all the responses you have on here. Maybe that'll open their eyes. If not, just know there are so many people out here who WOULD do these things for you!
YTJ. Your kids are old enough to understand that this isn't about THEM. Its not even about their dad and step mom. Its about these foster kids. Do you know how many HORRIBLE foster homes thete are out there. Where kids are horrendously abused? Your kids have grown up in a safe, warm family. These foster kids are being given the chance to be in that same safe, warm happy environment that they might not otherwise get to. IF your kids really feel that way and it isn't just you projecting your own feelings onto them, then they should be sat down and have this explained to them. Its awfully selfish of them and YOU. You, who have three children to raise dictating what their father and step mother WHO CANT HAVE KIDS OF HER OWN are allowed to do. YOU are trying to steal the chance for her to have a child to raise that isn't YOURS while also stealing the chance for these foster children to have an amazing place to live, even if just for a short time. You are ABSOLUTELY the jerk...
NTJ!!! Whoosahhhh this one really pisses me off. Pooping while giving birth is actually VERY common. You are not alone! You are merely WEEKS postpartum and your asshole of a husband is publicly shaming you for something that upsets you. I seriously want to throat punch your insensitive husband. He has no right to treat you that way and certainly has no right to downplay your feelings. He is gaighting you my dear. When someone says something hurtful and then says things like "It was just a joke, lighten up, no need to get mad" instead of APOLOGIZING, they are an asshole. Your husband should be groveling at your feet for forgiveness. He needs to read up on postpartum depression so he can HELP you, not hurt you. And postpartum or not, it is NEVER ok to "joke" at the expense of others, he is not being a good husband, partner, or person doing that. Period.
NTJ!!! Ben sounds like a gaslighting narcissist who's jealous that you have as much in your savings as you do. He screwed up his own finances and now he's trying to screw up yours too. Do. Not. Move. In. With. Him! Your accounts will be drained in no time and you'll find yourself up to your eyeballs in debt. Hes an idiot. How can he give anyone financial advice when he doesn't even know what splitting finances 50/50 means and thinks living off credit cards and PAYDAY LOANS are good financial choices?? You have made all the right choices up till now, don't make the wrong one by going against your gut and moving in with him. You will be miserable. You should run away from him as fast as you can!
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