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He wouldn't even need the lead the whole time, but if he steps away, chain that sucker up! An ounce of prevention....
Grow up! YTJ. Even more so that you have to ask and you obviously complained to multiple people. I have a runner and live near a road. She is never outside without a leash. She has managed to escape us roughly 5 times in 8 years. Because we use caution and know she will bolt. Accept that your dog is your responsibility. Also accept that your coming child is SHARED responsibility and you do NOT throw it up to Mom that things that arise with the baby is divided responsibilities. It is time to man up and learn what is your responsibility and what is shared responsibility.
NTJ. My first thought was~ who is paying for the trip? My second thought is~ if gf knows her friend is not comfortable with you, why include her/them? If she wanted to make it an opportunity for everyone to get to know each other, that's one thing, but the whole situation of not even suggesting that makes me think it was never the intent. Friend purposefully excludes you, so not the mix for a fun trip. You have two choices: 1) Make the trip and determine which way the wind blows. Accept that you may be breaking up if she does nothing to try to bridge the gap during the trip. (How does she plan on giving you lessons and spend time with them on different slopes? I see you practicing solo and them making a quick run or two.) OR. 2)Tell gf that you'll raincheck the lessons and they can go have fun. There's no need to cry about it and guilt you because you will just gracefully bow out of what seems like an awkward trip. Accept that you will probably be breaking up. There is nothing wrong with having a bf and a bestie that don't see eye-to-eye, but there is a huge problem with planning a couples weekend to teach one to ski and then include another couple when no one is on speaking terms.
NTJ. It also sounds like your fiancé agrees to kids, so tell his parents that kids are going to be there and they should plan an after party. It sounds like their financial contribution is for the booze, anyway..... you are uniting two families but also creating your own. If they have to have control like this, that is their problem. Barebone your expenses.
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