Swansea327
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The best way to deal with childish drama is to completely ignore it! She's being insanely childish, and she's just dying to get a reaction from you. Block her completely, and just move on with your life. Once she realizes nobody is paying any attention to her, she'll probably just stop. Definitely NTJ
You are definitely NTJ!! Your wife is being more childish than the toddler at this point. I simply don't understand why anyone would allow their toddler to co sleep with them! That should've been nipped in the bud when the child was still a baby. Let your wife sleep in the other room with the kid and enjoy your nice comfy bed!
So you decided, without any discussion from her, that she was "The One for you"....you need help. There's nothing wrong with having feelings for someone, or hoping that someday you'll be together. But she didn't owe you an explanation! Her personal life is none of your business. You're just embarrassed that you made a total *ss of yourself by making assumptions about your (non-existent) future with her. You are absolutely a jerk, and how could you possibly think any rational person on here would agree with you?? Definitely seems like this is a fake post, because I can't wrap my head around anyone being so completely clueless and ridiculous
I don't think you're a jerk at all for telling her that. I used to be a server, and it involves much more than just bringing people food and drinks. As a server, you need to be able to read people's body language and demeanor. It was obvious to me when someone was impatient and just wanted to get their food and get on with their day, as opposed to someone who wanted more interaction. I think she just might not be cut out for the task if she can't pick up on her customer's social cues. Not everyone is good at that, so maybe she needs to move on to some other line of work. You were very straight forward with her, and now it's up to her what she wants to do with that information
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