Swansea327
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You're definitely NTJ! Although clear communication is always the best route, in this case you shouldn't have had to tell him specifically to go wash his feet. As an adult, the moment he realized he was stinky, he should've immediately put his nasty shoes outside, and went to use soap and water to clean himself. He's not a toddler. And the fact that he just laughed when you mentioned it shows his immaturity....and then he acts all pouty and hurt when you WERE specific? I'm sorry, but if someone even hinted that I might have some offensive smell, I would've been mortified. Tell him he needs to stop acting so dense, and just take care of his hygiene issues immediately
Why is this even a question?? Of course you're NTJ! His brother is being ridiculous....and selfish! He's trying to emotionally manipulate you both by guilt tripping you. Sounds like he loves attention, and wants all the focus on him and his wife and kids. And he wants to be reassured that he's "important" enough to make you change YOUR special day to accommodate him. Just tell him where and when the wedding is and leave it at that. Ignore any further demands or drama...tell the rest of the family that there will be no further discussion about the matter....and enjoy your wedding!
Your family is horrible, but you just continue to allow it! Why?? You're 33, and your mom "just takes money" when she wants it? Again...WHY? Just put your money in an account that she has no access to....and for crying out loud, just say no when they ask for money. Ignore them when they guilt trips you! Block them.... something! Ultimately you're NOT the jerk, but you need to grow a spine and stand up for yourself. Whatever you allow will continue
Why are you even explaining yourself?? Tell her this is the way things are.... period....and just end the conversation. Tell her you're not even going to talk to her if she insists on arguing about every little thing.
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