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SO NTJ! My daughter is autistic. We can now go out to eat at family-style restaurants! She orders for herself and eats what she selected! She's 31. No one knows your son better than you. You are doing a fabulous job, Momma! You knew what was going to happen in those circumstances but it fell on deaf ears. Hopefully, your husband and mother-in-law will learn something from this. Until then, know that your instincts are on point and that your son is LUCKY to have you as his Mom!
AITJ For Not Letting My Wife Drive My Car?
2 hours ago
You said, "It’s well maintained because I make sure it is. It’s scratched and dinged because she’s not acutely aware of taking care of it. The interior is quite cluttered and stained because that’s her level of care." Being the wife of a foreign auto mechanic ... I have questions. Before your nest was empty, who did all the grocery shopping for the house? Who took the kids to their doctor appointments, after school sports and social activities? I ask because I've had my Audi door dinged at the grocery store, the kids have scratched the paint several times getting band and sports equipment in and out of the vehicle and I had my bumper dented at one of their dentist appointments. Does my Audi look like a mess? No, it does not ... because my husband takes care of all that when he does the scheduled maintenance on my car. You DON'T maintain her vehicle. You change the oil and filter and leave the rest. Makes it easier to suggest that she's lazy compared to you. YTJ!
Tell me you've never worked food service without telling me you've never worked food service. In this industry a portion of your shift is for cleaning and there is no overtime. Once her relief was there, that woman became their customer and her duty was to clean in the time allotted. Again, no overtime. Also, how is it her responsibility to replace the meal when the order was read back to her twice? The customer was wrong here and replacing what she didn't want, but ordered, is nothing short of weaponizing customer incompetence.
You strung her along for over a month, deciding siblings and friends were more important and when she appeared upset, you told her to "get over herself". Know what she actually needs to get over? Her need for you. She's going to grow up, move out and write you out of her life ... and you deserve that. YTJ
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