paganchick
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NTJ I'm a huge dog lover and to be completely honest if I had a partner who had a dog for 10 years, had him since the guy was 14 years old, and said he'd pick me over the dog, another living creature that he has had for that long, loved for that long, especially since child hood, I would have a serious think. If he could just throw away a living, loving being of that long for anyone, I'd have serious doubts about him. I do understand all the ways your statement hurt your partner, but at least now she knows the level of your love and commitment to those who you care about lol.
AITJ For Complaining About A Lady's Dog On The Bar?
58 minutes ago
NTJ There are service dogs that are small dogs, such as a seizure dog; however, there is absolutely no excuse for the dog to "have" to be on the bar. She could have held it in her lap or she could have found a booth (if the bar had them) and sat there. I wouldn't go so far as to report it to the health department just yet. A lot of businesses dont know the rules about service dogs, and the only questions you can ask the owner (at least in the U.S.) is do you have a disability and does the animal assist you with the disability. I'm sure that chic showed her a$$ before at the bar when she first did it and the employees were/are afraid of a lawsuit.
NTJ I spent my entire adult life in the Army and female, in a VERY male dominated career field. I have a handful of "sisters" but about 50 "brothers". Its out of habit when we see each other after years we hug forever and will kiss on the lips. It means absolutely nothing other than to say I love you with everything I am and I will until Valhalla. Some wives understand the bond and are ok with it, some have absolutely lost their crap and have even threatened me lol. 9 1/2 times outta 10 the ones with the problems end up divorced. People with severe insecurities and low self esteem think everyone is out to get their man/woman. Brush your shoulders off and drive on with your best friend. Some advice though, bring it up to your friend that he may want to find a girlfriend who isn't so crazy.
NTJ I'm seeing a lot of YTJ because of "trying to force a breakup" type of crap. The bottom line is you don't like the guy, regardless of why you don't like the guy, because he's more than double your sisters age or because his eyes are brown you do not like the guy; therefore, you don't want him at your wedding. So don't have him at your wedding and don't feel guilty about it.
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