Bees be bees. I'm highly allergic and do you know how many times I've been stung. Once. That's how I found out. She as parent has to police her child not her neighbor, her neighbor's lawn and certainly not nature. She has to teach her child how to avoid bees. Just leave them alone and they will leave you alone. Good job pollinating the world. We don't have enough bees and if people like her keep it up her daughter won't have a beautiful world to raise her own kids in.
Oh my dear. There are so many programs out there to help you. For starters call cps and let them know what's happening. Documentation. They can do a well check while he is with his father. Second go to a bargin clothing store and buy 10 outfits and shoes for him to go to dad's. Continue to take pictures. Documentation document document. Next go to child support enforcement and legal aide. Do not let this man continue to treat your child poorly. He is 100% responsible for clothing him on his time. And also 100% responsible for paying child support. If he really wants to quit his job he can go rot in a jail cell, loose his license and whatever over punishment they chose to throw his way.