EdenRai
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AITJ For Making My Wife Give Birth Alone?
1 year ago
I'm only here to question why so many commenters think having a home birth is inherently dangerous??? Like real talk, unless you have certain pregnancy/general health complications home births are just as safe, if not safer, than hospital births. The majority of birthing parents can have safe home births, regardless of whether they choose to or not. Now, it's still the wife's choice and she should ABSOLUTELY do whatever makes her the most comfortable. But y'all need to chill with the "you'd risk your wife's safety for your comfort" nonsense. Imo, NTA because (as sometime who's given birth) I would have had a far more difficult time with my delivery if my husband had been having an anxiety attack
I'm glad the SIL was amenable when you discussed things with her and your MIL. I really hate it when the bride-to-be doesn't back down after being confronted for their unrealistic expectations
She says she's being asked to be a character witness, the providing evidence of the other woman's behavior seems to be an afterthought so fuck testifying. If it were REALLY focused on the woman's behavior, then maybe. But being asked to be a CHARACTER WITNESS???? Yeah, no. NTA
YTA. While you two clearly needed some assistance in communication lost promotion, you pulled a dick move and now your wife feels like she needs to demote herself to keep the peace in your relationship. That's fucked up. She was adjusting to a new role with more responsibilities and it's likely she became harder on you at work in order to avoid accusations of favoritism by others. You know you pulled a dick move by transferring to a new team without talking to her first and you SHOULD feel bad about what you've done.
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