LizzieTX
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Maybe because she knew that he's an insensitive, selfish @*****e who can't be counted on to have her back? She could at least count on her mother and sister. What would have happened if, instead of her having what sounds like a normal birth, there had been an emergency and he needed to sign a surgical release? Her mother or sister probably wouldn't have been able to do it, because there was SUPPOSED to be a husband at hand, and marriage trumps family in that situation, believe me. Or worse, what if she or the baby had died between the time his selfish @*$ got back to the hospital to sign said form? Nope, OP is a major @*****e and I suspect his wife knows it. If he gave a rat's @*$ about her, he'd have stayed longer than the SIX WHOLE HOURS he sat in the waiting room, because he gave a $**t about what happened to her and his son. Pathetic.
I think the man is using this as an excuse to end the relationship with OP. I don't believe for one skinny minute that this man really wants to move to a country where his skill set is worth far less than his current compensation, and subject OP to a life of perpetual unemployment and as a second class citizen. He's making this impossible for her so he doesn't have to make excuses about staying in the UK without her. I also suspect there's a side piece involved, one in the UK, with whom he's wanting to make a life.
WIBTJ If I Ban My Roommate's Partner From My House?
5 months ago
NTA and you need to put on your big girl jerk and confront your roommate about your third roommate - her boyfriend. Tell her that her boyfriend is going to have to start paying 1/3 of the rent and utilities if he's going to be staying in your home more than he's in his own. If that doesn't suit them, his visits go down to two overnights per week MAXIMUM, and if that doesn't suit, both of them can find another place to live. Enough of the nonsense. Your female roommate is taking horrible advantage of you and it needs to stop.
NTJ and stand your ground on this. Your DIL is an attention w***e who has to be better than everyone else. Narcissistic in the extreme. Wonder what her saving graces are, that your son married her? Never mind - best not to go there. Anyway, I think that is a hill to die on, not letting heinous DIL usurp absolutely everything that matters to everyone in your family. I would ban her and your son from family gatherings too, because no one likes her and with good reason.
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