Danny isn’t carrying a torch he’s obsessed. You honestly may have to be a little more harsh with him and tell him to back off the poor girl. She’s already made it clear she’s not interested, he’s just being a creep now.
Ytj, you start off by saying she says she likes you but you doubt it basically, well you’re entitled and rude so maybe she doesn’t like you and with good reason. You went behind her back and tried to start problems because you don’t like the party dress code. It’s not something you have to do every time you see her, or for every holiday. Get over yourself