jego1
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I’ve had 6 children. Just had #6 last month. That being said, I think OP is NTJ. Blood is more visible and staining than urine. If I was heavily pregnant and a coworker tried to go before me, I would be irritated, but if she said it’s because her cycle started, I’d let her go in front of me. Both instances would require a change of clothes. One would be a lot more noticeable.
If you forgave the husband for the affair and stayed married, you also accepted the child. Period. Actions have consequences. His led to an extramarital baby. Yours (in staying married to him), leads to accepting of the child. Now when that child is older, don’t try and act surprised if they’re difficult with you considering that you treated them like garbage from the beginning. I honestly don’t understand how a mother can treat another mother’s child that way.
No, she said the holiday celebrations are mostly Maggie’s husband’s family. Compromise is a big part of marriage. It sounds like the OP doesn’t get much compromise because her husband always allows Maggie’s antics. It wouldn’t hurt for the OP and her husband to go to OP’s daughter’s house for that particular Christmas seeing as she just had a baby! To suggest for a woman who recently gave birth to come to you instead of going to her, was insensitive.
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I noticed their age difference and decided to ignore it. Then after reading the cooking, cleaning, and getting her off the reservation comments, it completely pointed to grooming. Yuck.
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